In my quest to be the ‘perfect mom’ but mostly, just to finally make some headway with my strong willed kid I devoured hundreds of books, courses and podcast episodes.
I tried every new technique - I literally would have given anything to stop walking on eggshells in my own home, constantly waiting for the next outburst to start….
I’m Randi, and in my own journey with my strong-willed kiddo, I discovered something amazing that totally transformed my household and the way that I parent.
Here’s the secret that no one’s talking about: the old parenting methods do. not. work. in our fast-paced world with our modern kids.
Let me give you three things:
Empathy Parenting Our kids are over-stimulated in a way that we never were. They are overwhelmed, stressed, anxious and it’s no wonder really that our highly-sensitive (strong-willed) ones are constantly on the edge of an outburst.
Leadership Communication I’ve not yet met a Mama whose number #1 goal wasn’t to be a good and kind parent. But our anxiousness for our kids to be happy all the time impacts the way we speak and stops us from being the pack leader they need.
Mastering your Mind Did you always swear you’d never repeat the mistakes your parents made? And yet one day you opened your mouth and our came your mother?! I hear ya! Your #1 priority needs to be mastering your mind, so that you can close the gap between the parent you want to be and the parent you show up as when you’ve had 3hrs sleep and your kid is pushing your buttons
If you’re ready to see a real transformation in your home, and finally have that happy, peaceful household you always wanted, I want to personally invite you into something that will change your life forever.
You don't need to wait for things to magically get better anymore. Those old parenting techniques you were taught don't work in the modern world, and that's not your fault.
I've created a new program that will allow you to retire old parenting methods involving fear, threats and yelling - replacing them with loving, assertive communication techniques to gain cooperation and respect from your kids.
Mastermind Parenting Basics is a monthly membership parenting course where you close the gap between the parent you want to be and the parent you currently are when your kids (especially your strong-willed ones) are pushing your buttons and driving you nuts.
When you join the Mastermind Parenting Membership, you'll have access to my ENTIRE parenting toolkit and library of resources to help you. This monthly membership has been uniquely designed to make it as easy as possible for your to get results fast! You'll also have daily access to me via our private Facebook Group... you can ask me anything!
Fancy Online Learning Site You can login from anywhere and access the learning materials on your own schedule.
Text Messages Get free daily pep-talks and timely reminders to help you keep your cool no matter what.
Snack-Sized Audio Trainings Learn on the go with short, sweet and NEVER vanilla or boring lessons.
Forever Access Unlimited access to the materials including teaching audios and cheat sheets - available nowhere else.
Virtual Workshops These will be filmed, streamed live and recorded if you not able to attend live.
Weekly Live Q&A Calls Come to the call with all your questions and personal challenges you would like help problem solving. The calls will be recorded, so if you can't make it, you can listen later.
10 additional audio trainings recorded from Randi sent immediately upon sign up to get you started!
Module 1: Welcome Directions about how to use the learning site Special Welcome Video from Randi Your 4 Tendencies (Interactive Quiz) Audios for Entire Course
Module 2: Basics Needs: Sleep & Nutrition Basic Needs: Sleep & Nutrition Getting to the Bottom of Bedtime Battles Sleep Specialist Workshop Your Words Today Become Your Inner Dialogue Tomorrow Activity to Rewrite Your Story Bedtime Routine Chart Video Basic Bedtime Routine
Module 3: Typical Child Development Audio Training on Typical Child Development The 4 Basic Temperaments of Your Child Know What is Normal Young Kids Lie Kid Under the Age of 7 Have No Inner Speech Don't is a Meaningless Word Kids are Meant to be Egocentric - primal survival trait Technology Guidelines and a Survival Plan Timers Establish Clear Expectations and Help with Transitions
Module 4: Raising Kiddos with Intrinsic Motivation Audio Training on Intrinsic Motivation Video about Rewards How to Teach Your Child Perspective Taking Empathy is your Secret Sauce Resist the Urge to Fix Rewarding Our Kids How to Show Empathy to Your Kiddos Sample Scripts The 3-Step Guide to Empathy
Module 5: How are you behaving? Model the behavior you seek. Audio Training for Model the Behavior You Want Your Kids to Have Calm Parents = Calm Kids How is Your Brain Like a Car? Triggers Think Sheet The Best Way for Any Human to Calm Down Money See, Monkey Do The Meltdown Manual Managing in the Mornings You are in Charge of the Drama Anger is Always Rooted in Fear Consequences vs. Punishments The Calm Down Corner Cheat Sheet Calming Down When Triggered Cheat Sheet
Module 6: Leadership Leading Your Family Team Where There's Blame, Shame is Lurking Close By What You Focus on Grows How to be the pack leader of your Family Team Effective Leaders Know How to Delegate The importance of Family Meetings Family Meeting Handout Self-Evaluation
Module 7: Sibling Rivalry Sibling Audio Training Siblings that fight often end up very close and connected Sibling Fighting Workshop Dr. Green - The Explosive Child The Productive Conversation
Module 8: Actionable Guides & Resources to Refer Back to in the Future Future Action Plan Audio Training Bedtime routing checklist to head off battles Nutrition cheat sheets Technology Survival Plan Cheat Sheet P.E.T. - Present Engaged Time Cheat Sheet Calming Down When Triggered Cheat Sheet Assertive Communication Tools Cheat Sheet Consequences vs Punishments Time Out Alternative - Calm Down Spot Cheat Sheet Timer suggestions and scripts to help with transitions The Meltdown Manual The Meltdown Method
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